For busy parents, our phones can be a lifeline: they allow us to Facetime with farflung family during our kids’ baseball games, sign up for summer camps right when registration opens, and sneak in Slack messages while chopping veggies. And while this on-the-go multitasking may appear efficient, default parents are all too familiar with this … Read more
Becoming a dad is full of firsts: the first time you learn fatherhood is in your future, the first time you hold your baby, the unforgettable first laughs, and yes, the first blowout diaper change. For many new dads, it can feel like you’ve been handed the golden ticket to the most exclusive club in … Read more
Modern parents—especially the default parent—are often praised as superheroes for juggling careers, kids, and an endless to-do list. But when did doing it all alone become a standard worth celebrating? The reality is that many parents are parenting without a village and while this determination is admirable, the exhaustion that comes with it shouldn’t be … Read more
We‘re all guilty of being glued to our cell phones. There’s no escaping them. According to a survey done by Exploding Topics, the average time that Americans spend their smartphones is 3 hours and 15 minutes, and there’s a chance your nanny is part of this statistic. While not all nannies are glued to their … Read more
As a nanny, it can be hard to practice self-care. When your focus is always on the ones you’re caring for, it’s easy to throw yourself on the back burner. You tell yourself you’ll focus on your own needs lateR. But, as a caregiver working long days and full weeks, how do you give yourself … Read more
Imagine jet-setting around the globe, your children in tow, as you explore ancient ruins, lush rainforests, bustling cities, and tranquil beaches. The experience of exposing your little ones to new locations, cultures, and languages is incomparably enriching, offering them a broad view of the world and igniting a lifelong love for adventure. However, as thrilling … Read more
Let’s set the scene. You’re a hardworking parent juggling a busy job, making time for your spouse, and most importantly, wanting to be there for your little one every step of the way. We mean, it’s not breaking news that being a constant figure during the early years of your child’s life is essential. A … Read more
Choosing childcare can feel like navigating an endless menu of options. In fact, for new parents, researching childcare is not all that different from trying to pick the “right” stroller or the best brand of diapers—there is a lot to consider and everyone and their mother (including yours) has an opinion. If you’re looking for … Read more
When we hear the word “discipline,” many of us picture consequences or time-outs. But at its core, discipline isn’t about punishment—it’s about teaching. It’s the process of helping children understand boundaries, regulate emotions, and make better choices over time. That teaching is most effective when it’s consistent. And this is where things can get tricky, … Read more
They say not all heroes wear capes and no one proves that more than default parents. These capeless heroes are the first ones to rearrange their schedules to care for a sick child, juggle scheduling summer camps, after-school activities and school holidays, and take on prepping and shopping for snacks and meals. In short, default … Read more
Summer’s on the horizon, and you’re picturing pooltime, lazy evening BBQs, and maybe—if the stars align—a family vacation where everyone magically gets along (hey, a parent can dream, right?). But behind the sunny daydream is a more complicated reality: for many families, summer is less carefree and more of a calendar-filling, childcare-scrambling conundrum. Summer camp … Read more
It’s no secret that moms often take on the majority of parenting and household responsibilities. In fact, a 2023 survey revealed that 47% of moms handle household chores and responsibilities most of the time, while 12% noted that they handle these tasks in their entirety with no help from their partner or spouse. Whether it’s … Read more
