The Default Parent Dilemma: Why Moms Carry the Maternal Mental Load (& How to Change It)

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They say not all heroes wear capes and no one proves that more than default parents. These capeless heroes are the first ones to rearrange their schedules to care for a sick child, juggle scheduling summer camps, after-school activities and school holidays, and take on prepping and shopping for snacks and meals. In short, default … Read more

25 of the Most Unique and Impactful Nanny Interview Questions 

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Hiring a nanny is one of the most important decisions you’ll make for your family, and the right interview questions can make all the difference. Beyond the basics like experience and availability, asking thoughtful nanny interview questions helps you understand how a potential nanny thinks, communicates, and shows up during real-life moments. In this guide, … Read more

Navigating the Nanny Holiday Bonus: A Comprehensive Guide

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Our comprehensive guide on the nanny holiday bonus covers everything families need to know about giving a Christmas bonus for your nanny, including best practices, recommended amounts, and creative tips for showing appreciation.  There are so many people who keep a busy family’s life moving and fulfilled—from your child’s teacher to their coach to your … Read more

The Value of Educated Nannies: Why Degrees and Training Matter for Modern Families

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Childcare is shifting from supervision to enrichment—and educated nannies are leading the way. With degrees in early childhood education and specialized certifications, these professionals bring structure, empathy, and developmental insight into the home. This piece explores how education is reshaping the role of the modern nanny. For families beginning their nanny search, the first questions … Read more

Affording vs. Valuing Caregiving: Why the Difference Matters More Than You Think 

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In-home caregivers step into a world most professionals never see, making compensation and treatment far more personal than a line item in a budget. When lifestyle and pay fall out of sync, tension can quietly grow. This piece breaks down the visibility dynamic, the true cost of underpaying, and how families can build healthier, more … Read more